When do we know that we have reached a perfect love? I John 4:17 I'm far from perfect. Our marriage has lasted 22 years this May, but more by God's grace than by any perfection on our part. I think Christianity is a demanding philosophy. It's more than a philosophy of life, really, it is a relationship with our Father in Heaven, God, & He demands perfection, as is His right, as He is perfect. But as He is merciful, He is also pleased with any steps we take in this direction. I think it is common for so called respectable people who avoid crime to be too content & self satisfied with a standard of moral life far below perfection. This afflicts Buddhists, atheists & even some Christians. But this New Year we have another chance at reaching higher ground.